Blaming my anorexia for my opinions - keep getting called 'silly head'?

I just need some opinions from you guys as I am feeling really hurt, and I would value other perspectives on my situation. I am battling the recovery with anorexia, the fight is HARD but I am winning and will succeed. Everyday I acheive another victory against the voice, leaving this prison. Problem is that when I 'put forward a view point' (controlled with intellect) on any subject,both my mother and my daughter do not agree with my opinion, they just say ' that's just your silly head talking, although when I agree with them I am talking 'sense now', I am seen as the 'ANOREXIC' not who I am , business owner, degrees and kind. They have been unable to support me through this fight - too much commitment to the end victory. oversensitve or not? , I use this situation to grow stronger not as a sign that I do not deserve to eat, although I feel so alone with this. Any views x Thankyou x