I am confused! What should I do? Holiday guy or other one?

My best suggestion is to look real deep inside yourself and ask who you like more of the two. Since you and the holiday guy are not official it's his fault for not jumping at it getting to know you better. He should be on the ball getting to know you, not footing around. Either way he can always find a friend at the last minute to go with him, I know I would. Just think on who you like the most. Good luck!